Test 1. Tell your boyfriend (significant other) that you plan to start becoming sexual with others. Tell him that this would only benefit your relationship. It doesn’t mean that you don’t love him, it only means “sex.” Tell him that this is a test of his love for you. Explain to him that you need to experience others sexually before you can completely commit to him. Reassure him that in the end this will be good for the both of you as tough as it may be in the meantime. It is just a test to see if you are really meant to be together.
Test 2. Get semi-sexual in front him with another man. Don’t have sex – just be sexual. Kiss, be flirty, let another touch you in front of him. In front of your partner; let yourself be seen naked in front of others. Let him see that you and your body is desired. This will make him desire you more.
Test 3. Have sex with another. After, tell your boyfriend (significant other) and assure him that it was only sex and that you love him… and if he truly loves you he will be ok with it. After telling him… be sure to have sex with him – show him that you love him.
Test 4. Take pictures of you with another, enjoying one another. Share these with your boyfriend (significant other). This shows him that you are serious and that you need to explore and be explored by others. But again, be sure to reassure him that you will always come home to him and that you love him.
Test 5. Choose a “friend” that you feel most comfortable with, use no protection, come home to your boyfriend (significant other) and have him kiss you all over… head to toe including where your friend has been. This is the ultimate test of love. Will he do it? He will do it if he truly loves you. If he finds this to be a test that he is unable to live through then he does not seriously and truly love you.